Womenlines takes pleasure to welcome Abha Maryada Banerjee, leadership author and motivational speaker as a guest influencer at Womenlines.

Abha Maryada Banerjee is India’s first woman motivational speaker of international acclaim, rated as one of the Top Ten Life, Business and Success Coaches in the Asia Pacific. An expert at Leadership, Human Peak Performance and Emotional Intelligence, Abha has been the Peak Performance/Mental Strength Coach for Indian Olympic Athletes. Her sharing below is a dose of motivation for womenfolk to change themselves for a positive approach in life-

Talk of change and we have no clue where to begin..

Here is the remaining N-Z list of all that we can do and feel the difference-

13. N- Turn away from negative influences: Negativity diverts us from staying connected to ourselves. Negative influences pull us to the outside causing friction inside as well. As we act from within, we must not allow anything to disturb that.

O- Keep the conduct optimized: Our choices are related to what we value, what rational principles we follow and the character that we have been able to build so far. Living with sincerity increases the odds in our favour, of positive results in life.
P-We are all born with wisdom waiting to unfold: It is through our own lives, that we can achieve this state of understanding about our selves and others. Wisdom is in our own nature and this knowledge is available to everyone, who is willing to recognize, accept and live according to nature. Our humanness, including our mind, emotions, and the capacity to act are the tools we carry all the time. All this is in our control not outside or beyond us.
Q- You can only experience YOU through experience: We have been taught to fear experience. But if we understand that we are the creators of experience and at the centre of our minds and bodies, there will be no fear to experience life. From the Center, you can expand into any experience and come back to the centre. Life will remain aligned and in order.
R-Your standards are within you: World standards are not you. If you remain centred, the world becomes on the observation field in which you can go and come back. Each time you take a stretch and come back, it broadens your perspective about yourself and life in general.
S-Develop the Center and Nucleus: The Center develops from sensitivity, concentration and careful thought about nature’s principle within all things. This way you are never thrown off the centre by the inevitable difficulties of life. When something goes wrong, you act from the centre and make choices.
T- Use your mind and free will to understand your World: Each time you will discover something about the self. You started out just for this.
U-Human Nature is actually good: Expression is the way we communicate with the World and it is a choice of our life’s journey. The expression is essential and we all must make it a way of life because every time we express, we add something to this World. It is also our duty to express and understand expression to build our own selves.
V-Become highly functioning as a person: Become proactive and experimental. Find your roles and play them well. Put the best knowledge into it. Life continues to unfold through its ever-changing cycles. If there is no one to enforce discipline or provide correction, be willing to doubt and question yourself but be ready to correct yourself. That is how we develop our potential.
W-Use every opportunity to maximize yourself: Understanding what you learned through any experience is lasting and useful. Make it your own, apply it and you will begin to see every opportunity as an opportunity to grow and learn.
X-Looking at positive in everything: In situations, in people, interpretations, perspectives in the function of how we interpret. Sometimes, things are truly negative, discern and move away. Evolve and help evolve others, we are all part of someone’s self-esteem.
Y-We live in a 3D World with no glasses to help us experience the same. The reason why there is unhappiness is that we can only see bits and pieces of the dimensions. We continue to live around fragmented versions of life. What we need is a 30 D mind and belief system to create continuous understanding and all that we can possibly be and do. We must weave this into our fabric as deeply and specifically, we can. This is the only way we can proactively and progressively control our progress. Let it become a positive virus infecting every bit of our mind and body.
Z-YOU Are INTEGRATION: Excellence is a process of liberation and appears in cycles of learning. There are no quick fixes. It is a process of peaks, valleys and plateaus. Only a very strong belief that it is changing and changing for the better because you are moving towards the better will you be able to achieve success. As you choose to improve areas of Incompetence, you will become more and more authentically integrated.